Please Let us Wash your Car!

Friends of OnRamp, if you’re in BCS and have a bit of free time tomorrow morning, Saturday, October 1, we’d love to have you come out to our annual CarWash Fundraiser anytime between 9am and noon. We’ll be at the A&M Church of Christ on the northbound Highway 6 feeder road just north of the new Academy. Not only will you get a stellar car wash, we’ll also do a quick tire check and air up your tires if needed, and you’ll get to play a game from inside your car where you could win a $50 HEB gas card! KORA will be there with their prize wheel so you can grab free swag, too. Huge thanks to Megan Bock Realty and Christian Brothers Automotive for underwriting this event.

Please share this invitation with others. This event will be a great chance for new followers to learn more about OnRamp and the clients we serve.

Former clients, please come and let us know when you arrive. We have a special gift for the first ten former clients who come (free gas cards!)

We are still looking for a few more VOLUNTEERS. Please email me at blakej@onramptx.org if you can help wash cars or check tires 8:45 to 10:30 or 10:30 to 12:15 (or the whole time if you’re in a really generous mood!) Also, if anyone has long garden hoses and/or long electrical extension cords, please let me know. We’re looking for a few more. Just email me at the address above.

Finally, if you can’t make it but still want to help with the fundraiser, please click here: donorbox.org/onramp-carwash-2022

Two New Clients, a Lighthouse, and a Carwash

We have so much to share in this week’s update! Our 115th and 116th clients received vehicles, our Vehicle Team Lead, Jeremy Smith, won a huge national award for his service to OnRamp, and our annual Carwash is THIS WEEKEND. So let’s jump in!

Client D with our team member, Bettye, giving her a Bible. Picture blurred to preserve client’s privacy.

Our 115th client, “D” received this Toyota Corolla through your generous donations. This godly woman constantly cares for family and friends. She was up till almost midnight the evening before the donation washing loads of clothing at a laundromat for a disabled elderly relative who depends on her. She helps several community members receive the care they need by ensuring they make their medical appointments and have food to eat. When her previous vehicle broke down, she was sent to OnRamp for help. Unfortunately, it was well beyond repair. So we simply gave her a new one! This Corolla will help her get to her own physical therapy appointments and the grocery store, as well as continue to care for her elderly family and neighbors. Fun fact, her advocate, Francine, is actually a former OnRamp client, too! She has known D for twenty years and wanted her to experience the freedom that comes from the gift of a reliable car. And finally, D heard that OnRamp often gives clients a new Bible when we give them a car (if we have them in stock and if the client would like one). She wanted one, but we were out. Grace Bible Church came to the rescue with two boxes of new Bibles, and our team enthusiastically took her one for herself and one for her daughter!

Our 116th client, “T” is a member of a wonderful local church that has poured into his life for years while he has struggled through medical disability due to a very bad back injury twelve years ago that left him partially paralyzed. He had to sell his car to help pay medical bills. Once he was back on his feet, he had to walk, bike, or rely on the church when transportation was needed. Sadly, the local bus doesn’t run on weekends, meaning he couldn’t get to church unless the church sent a ride. He felt like a prisoner in his own home. But all that changed through your generosity! With the funds many of you donated, we bought T this excellent Toyota Yaris. It’s perfect transportation for him: efficient, surprisingly roomy, and it only had 54,000 miles. It should last him a decade. Thank you so much for helping us give FREEDOM to both D and T!

Now on to an award. We are so proud of our very own Jeremy Smith, general manager at Christian Brothers Automotive in Bryan and College Station, who out of all the employees at all the Christian Brothers Automotive locations in the country, won the 2022 Lighthouse Award! This is a huge deal. One employee in their entire organization wins this annual award for being a light to their community through selfless service that goes beyond the job. Jeremy won due to the countless hours he has donated outside of work to build and oversee our Vehicle Team, repair our clients' cars, and build an incredible vehicle tracking database. Well done, my friend!

Finally, our annual Carwash is THIS SATURDAY, 9am to noon at the A&M Church of Christ. We would LOVE to have all of you come support our ministry and get your car washed. We’ll have expert detailers running the show, games to play, and prizes to win. If you’d like to volunteer to help us wash cars, please email me ASAP at blakej@onramptx.org and I’ll add you to our volunteer list. If you can’t make the event but want to donate to our cause, please see the picture below with donation QR code or click HERE.

Client 114: meeting a toddler's medical needs

Our 114th client, a single mom called “Mama T” by her advocates at Elizabeth House Maternity Home, is an inspiration to our team. When Mama T was pregnant and in need of help, she reached out to Elizabeth House who took her in, housed her, loved her, coached her, and helped her get on her feet. They continued to help when her son was diagnosed with significant medical needs that required WEEKLY trips to specialists in Temple. But without a vehicle of her own, this young mom struggled to make these out-of-town appointments, get to work, the store, daycare, and church. A challenging journey was made even harder. But she never gave up. According to her advocate, she works incredibly hard at her full-time job, so hard in fact that she received a raise the same day we interviewed her! She not only completed all of Elizabeth House’s training programs, but also completed the Brazos Valley Food Bank Growth program, built a significant rainy-day savings fund, and found an apartment of her own. We did not hesitate to accept this determined young mom into our program and provide her with this pretty red Toyota Corolla, a perfect vehicle to shuttle her toddler to-and-from Temple every week, and hold down her job as she continues to work towards her goals. Well done, Mama T and Elizabeth House!!

Let me use this example to encourage anyone who can to donate to OnRamp to help us bless others like this brave woman. As always happens late in the year, our funds are running low. We are currently in jeopardy of having to pause new vehicle purchases, meaning we cannot accept new clients into our program. With used vehicle prices at record highs, we need to raise $10,000 for every person like Mama T whom we help. I know that’s a lot, but I hope you see the transformational impact your generosity has in the life of a family we serve. We’ve not only put Mama T on a new trajectory, but we’ve ensured that her eight-month-old son continues to get the crucial medical care in Temple he needs to thrive for the rest of his life. This investment in reliable transportation leads to better health that will pay dividends for decades to come in this young boy’s life. Furthermore, for all who want to support Pro Life causes, now that Roe-v-Wade has been overturned, this is the next opportunity before us - to sacrificially give to support the brave women who commit to raise their children even if they have to do it alone. Let’s make sure they know they’re not alone in this journey! Please give to help us continue to bless inspirational women like Mama T. Just visit www.onramptx.org/give

Finally, please come out to our Carwash fundraiser at A&M Church of Christ on Oct 1 anytime from 9 to noon. Thanks!

Clients 112 & 113 - the scope of who we help

For this week’s story, I want to share two recent OnRamp clients who, together, demonstrate the breadth of worthy individuals we are privileged to serve. While the majority of our clients are single moms raising young children, we also donate vehicles to individuals facing extreme health challenges, such as Russell, our 112th client, and individuals who go far beyond their 9-to-5 job to serve their community selflessly, such as “E,” our 113th client.

Russell has been on dialysis since 1996… yes, 26 years of treatment! His advocate, Sherry at US Renal Care, says that among his greatest strengths are determination and perseverance. Absolutely! How else could he endure two-and-a-half decades of weekly dialysis! Since he didn’t have a vehicle, this sometimes required walking 6 miles round trip to make appointments. His determination is legendary. Sherry goes on to say that Russell is also compassionate, and looks out for other dialysis patients who he can support emotionally in their trials. He is faithful with his limited finances, but unable to get a job due to lack of transportation. So last week, OnRamp donated this Honda Civic to Russell to give him the opportunity for employment and community engagement. Russell was overwhelmed. He told us that the car represented one word: “Freedom.” He could finally live his life with the freedom to leave the house that so many of us take for granted.

Client “E,” whose identity we’re keeping private, is an absolute inspiration. I had the privilege of interviewing her and knew within five minutes that she was getting a car! She works a full-time job during the day, plus part time at night to make ends meet. And when she’s not working she volunteers with a local Community Center to help families work through mental health struggles. She also volunteers with her church, Skybreak, as well as area youth ministries. This woman gives and gives without hesitation! Lack of a vehicle made all this service that much harder. So last week, OnRamp gave “E” a Toyota Corolla to empower her future and enable her to bless countless families and kids in our community who depend on her assistance. What a win for our community and for the family of God!

For those of you who donate to OnRamp, please keep it up! We’ve actually already given vehicles to our first 115 clients. I’m just behind on sharing all these stories! But we are quickly running out of funds due to the ever-increasing cost of reliable cars. If you can donate to help the next folks like Russell and “E,” please visit https://www.onramptx.org/give.

Finally, we are excited to announce our second annual CarWash event, Saturday October 1st from 9-12 at A&M Church of Christ! Come get a free carwash and donate to OnRamp if you can to help us buy more vehicles to give to local families in need. 98.3 KORA, Alegria and The Beat will be broadcasting live, and you can spin the KORA prize wheel for free merchandise. HUGE thanks to Megan Bock - Real Estate Broker Associate for stepping up as the primary underwriter for this event! WE NEED CARWASH VOLUNTEERS - if you can help wash cars from 9-10:30 or 10:30-noon that day, please email me at blakej@onramptx.org. Your help will raise awareness and funds for a great cause, and we hope to have lots of former clients out to get a wash, so you can serve these wonderful families as well. We'd love to have LOTS of college students and/or organizations help us too.

Client #111: an actual miracle

This story has left me speechless, when few things do. I don’t know how to share the gravity and power of it. It’s just too sacred. But I will try. OnRamp’s 111th client is a single mom named Diana and her adult son with autism, Leland. Leland talks to Jesus… and Jesus talks to him. I am quite sure of it. The full story of how Leland came to receive this gift and how God has used his gift is not mine to tell. I will simply say that I believe it is true and it has humbled me.

The first thing you should know is that Diana is an inspiration. When she’s not working to support her family, she is taking Leland to specialist appointments, volunteering at her church or at assisted living facilities, and caring for her father in Caldwell. She gives all she has to serve God and others. But life became far more difficult when she found herself without a reliable vehicle, and unable to afford a replacement. For a time she borrowed a car, but it broke down, stranding her and Leland in the middle of a busy street. She needed help... so Jesus had a talk with Leland. He sent Leland to Jay Meador, the director of the Brazos Valley Financial Fitness Center. Diana was enrolled in Jay’s Financial Fitness program, but they were not scheduled to meet for some time. Jesus had other plans and fortuitously arranged an unplanned meeting that resulted in Diana’s nomination to OnRamp. We accepted her without reservation… and then we realized that Jesus had already provided the vehicle. A few weeks before, a generous family in town gave OnRamp a very low mileage 2011 Toyota Camry… for free. Do you know how often we are given a car that nice for nothing? Hardly ever! But obviously Jesus had a plan. The new title arrived exactly at the right time to sign it over to Diana. I told Jay that she and Leland were driving away in one of the nicest cars we’ve ever gifted.

So what to make of all this? I am not the kind of guy given to flights of fancy. I am an engineer through and through, skeptical by nature and hungry for evidence. But I believe a young man named Leland sees and talks with Jesus here in our own town. I am so grateful I got to meet Leland and play a small part in the story Jesus is writing in his life.

I will leave you with this: Leland says that everyday, no matter the circumstance, Jesus shows up to him robed in light, smiling from ear to ear. I look forward to seeing that for myself one day. Maranatha.

Story and pictures shared with Diana and Leland’s permission.

Straight Talk on Mental Health

Psalm 69:2-3 I have sunk in deep mire, and there is no foothold; I have come into deep waters, and a flood overflows me. I am weary with my crying; my throat is parched; My eyes fail while I wait for my God.

Our Brazos Valley community suffered at least three suicides this last week (those are just the ones reported). One would be too many, but three in a week is a tragedy and a wake up call that we need to talk much more frequently and openly about mental health. So let me go first. I have suffered from clinical depression for the last six years. SSRI medication, counseling, and a career change have all helped manage my condition, but this burden doesn’t go quietly into the night. It lingers, always ready to reassert itself if I don’t continually pursue community and medical help. Sadly, when I first fell into depression I felt ashamed because I had grown up believing the lie that strong men and faithful Christians don’t get depressed. After all, didn’t we grow up singing,

I've got the joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart

Where? Down in my heart! Where? Down in my heart!

I've got the joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart

Down in my heart to stay

And I'm so happy, So very happy…

Fortunately, God has used wise counselors and friends to refute that lie in my life, and I wish to do the same for you. Yes, the Holy Spirit can give joy to Christians who follow Jesus. But David’s words in Psalm 69 above prove that even faithful Christians can suffer with clinical depression and anxiety. Solomon, Isaiah, John the Baptist, and many other men and women of scripture suffered the same. Depression, anxiety, bi-polarity, suicidal ideation… none of these are a mark of shame. They are a result of humanity’s brokenness. As our bodies are frail and vulnerable, so are our minds. We would not berate a person diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. So why do we berate a person suffering from a mental health disorder?

So let’s get practical. What can we do if we’re struggling with depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, or another mental health challenge, or if we know someone who is?

1. Give grace. This struggle is not proof of failure, spiritual immaturity, or guilt. While some suffer because they’ve made destructive choices (e.g. abuse of alcohol or drugs), many suffer through no fault of their own just like so many of the faithful suffered in the Bible through no fault of their own.

2. Get professional help. Thank God for wise counselors and therapists! We would be fools not to take advantage of their expertise (see Proverbs 11:14). Please reach out to your health care provider to find a local counselor or therapist who can help you or your loved one. If you don’t have insurance, MHMR can provide free help during their Open Access days Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 8:30am-11:30am, first come first serve. And if you are ever in a crisis moment, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988.

3. Confide in a community. Anxiety and depression grow in the dark. Bring them into the light with a trusted friend, mentor, family member, or church leader. We need to be honest, open, and vulnerable with one another or we’ll never get better (see Ecclesiastes 4:9-10).

4. Take care of your body. Our minds, bodies, and spirits are inseparably united so that what hurts one part of us hurts all parts of us. In most cases, mental health struggles are linked to physiological ailments in our bodies. In my case, I needed an SSRI medication to stabilize my brain’s biochemistry. Others need anti-anxiety medications, anti-psychotics, or treatments for an underlying disease, or even just changes to their diet, exercise or sleep routines. Schedule an appointment with your doctor as soon as possible to identify potential medical issues.

5. Learn. There are many great books about mental health, spiritual health, healing, and recovery. Three of the best in my own life have been “The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook” by Bourne, “Walking on Water When You Feel Like You're Drowning” by Nelson and Leavitt, and “Choose and Choose Again” by Kevin Butcher. The latter is not specifically about mental health, but more about God’s outrageous love for all of us who are struggling.

Welcoming Peyton Somervill to the World...

Our OnRamp staff family has grown! Our Care Director, Cassidy Somervill, gave birth to Peyton Grace Somervill on Tuesday morning. We are praising the Lord for a safe, healthy baby girl to join Cassidy, Jordan, and Kacey.

For all our clients and advocates, Cassidy will be on maternity leave for the next two months. During that time, our Operations Director, Stephanie Mason, will shoulder her responsibilities and serve as the point person for OnRamp’s clients and advocates. We can’t thank Stephanie enough for helping during this time so that Cassidy can focus on Peyton. We do ask for patience and grace as we try to manage an unprecedented number of vehicle donation requests with a reduced staff. As of this morning, there are 27 nomination forms in our queue from just the last two months! Not long ago, that was the total number of clients we would serve in a whole year. And just for reference, if we accept all of them, this slate of clients will cost us $270,000 to put in vehicles at current market rates! In just two months! So if you’ve ever thought about giving to OnRamp, now is a great time.

Finally, time to get a bit preachy, if you will permit me. I am so thankful that our dynamite board of directors granted Cassidy paid maternity leave for the next two months. I confess that at first I was a bit worried about the financial cost of this offer. But then as she often does, our wise Board Chair, Catherine Cole, gently reminded me that if we are truly a pro-life, pro-women, pro-family organization, it would be hypocritical not to grant paid maternity leave to our staff. She’s right. In our opinion, any business or organization that desires to promote a pro-family, pro-life culture really should offer paid maternity leave if at all possible, with length depending on what the business/org can afford, but the more, the better. Better yet, consider paid family leave so that both spouses can bond with their new child during those first crucial months. We believe this should extend to both full and part time workers since it is often part-timers who most need the margin to cover bills. Yes, it will cost you just as it costs us, but it is a very small price to pay to help children enter life on a firm foundation. We hope other businesses and orgs will join us so that paid parental leave eventually becomes the norm in our community!